True Friendship is not only measured by what a person says or does in your presence or the truth they tell when you’re present.

The true measure of a friendship happens when things are said about you when you’re not around.

Your true friend morphs into a paid attorney, putting up a strong defense for you when someone comes for you and you’re not there to defend yourself. They also hold your secrets in confidence like attorney/client privilege.


A True Friend ❣️

~Bridgette Hicks


I wonder could you be considered high minded if you center your focus on GOD above instead of the worlds foolishness? High minded was always a negative connotation, meaning that a person viewed themselves as better than another person. I say let’s change this.! How about if you believe in and have relationship with GOD (yes it’s a two fold requirement), consider yourself “High Minded”

I am High Minded enough to believe that no matter the woes and evils that seek to divide us, steal our Joy, and weaken our Faith, HE who sits high and looks low has already eradicated these negative weeds at the root. HE has vindicated us and made us victorious. HE will never make our Faith ashamed and HE will continue to call us by name.

Thank You Our Heavenly Father….

Love, your High Minded Kid,

Bridgette Hicks


Off, Unchallenged Thinking 

How do you ever know your thinking or actions are off if no one ever tells you. Sometimes we think our learned and established behavior or thought patterns are wise and correct. Truth be told, we ALL need that someone who is unbiased and cares enough to challenge our possibly wrong thinking/behavior. Woe be it unto the man who is never challenged in that manner or never challenges those close to them. ~Iron Sharpens Iron~BHicks 

Not For Every One, Just The One

I saw this photo from Shawn McKenzie and loved it. I wrote some encouraging words below it for women like this. I  pray it blesses you. The revelation blessed me.

If you are this, understand that every man is not looking for this. Make sure you’re ok with that fact and remember to not take a step back waiting for someone who doesn’t understand the value of this, to catch up. They just may not be in to you, or ready for you, or just not checking for you. That’s ok. If there is only one for you that means don’t gaze into the eyes of every man in the multitude wondering if he is the one. It may sound cliche but fix your eyes on GOD. If you deal in Faith you know HE will not make you ashamed, HE knows what you need, want and how to give it to you. HE is your Father. Your greatest champion who knows and calls you by name. Speak your name and who you are and what GOD has Himself said about you. It will help you to remember you’re worthy. As for me, my name is Bridgette. Though I had strayed I am called and chosen. I am waiting, I am patient, I am grateful and I Am LOVE. 

Ich Liebe Dich Alle ❤️

~Bridgette Hicks 2017

Anti Christ like

Listen….The anti-Christ does not have to work hard at all to win you. Most of you are already knowingly pandering to your lower selves. You’ve become advocates of wrong when you know what’s right. You’ve turned a blind eye to love and become a champion for his cause already. 

Didn’t you know it wouldn’t be hard to sway you? Darkness is inherently in you. Darkness is at all times fighting for your attention, always like a spider looking for a crack so it can creep in, you none the wiser. 

You never checked your motives because there was always an explanation for your actions. But take notice, you moved further and further away from the light. Not so much from man’s way, but GODS version of right. 

But GOD knew, just like HE knew JUDAS would betray him too. Just like HIS boy Peter denied him too, HE already knew. So just like those two, death or conviction will bear down on you, unless you change your ways. Kneel down and pray that your real motives be made known to you today. Lest you continue to be led astray….by the anti. 

As you were…….

Copyright ©2017 Bridgette Hicks  All rights reserved 

A Prayer for My Daughter 

   Arise & Shine, (Isaiah 60) for your light has come daughter. GOD is blessing the work of your hands, the strength of your character, the seeds you have sown and the leaps and bounds that you have grown.   Let your light so shine so GOD may continually be glorified (Matthew 5:16). May you and your business prosper in wealth, good people around you, and good health even as your Soul prospers. (3 John 1:2). No weapons formed prosper though…A hedge of protection, GODS direction and Angels camped everywhere you are is what it is like in Isaiah 54:17. 

Go forth in peace, abundance and joy today always remembering the LORD’S plan in Jeremiah 29:11. 

In JESUS Name, AMEN 🙏🏾 

Love you dear,



Mediocre People Meant for Excellence 


1: Many have become comfortable with their standard of living so they feel they need GOD less.

2: Many now blame others for their own lack of progress.

3. Many will join a bandwagon no matter where it’s going just to say they’re riding. And they’d rather ride or die. 

4. People talk of individuality but don’t really want to stand out 

5: People choose people over GOD because they believe that people can save them. Until they realize people can’t.

6: People would rather believe a lie because their friends do versus separate themselves to seek out the truth

7: People who don’t have Faith rely on land, homes, spouses, pets, notoriety and bank accounts for a sense of self worth

8: Women have the power to influence the hearts of men but many value companionship over values. So few are the women that speak to the King in a man but many are the women who award the court jester in a man with their prized affection 

9: People have become so hyped on their own intelligence that they dismiss Faith in GOD as willful ignorance. 

10: The new intelligence says that church (assembling with other believers) is for the weak. Until they themselves are weakened

11: Many people consider a prayerful person who’s life isn’t about the turn up, a bore. Until they need someone to pray for them. 

12: Many people stay away from those who tell the truth because the truth is, they’ve become more comfortable with lies and mediocrity 

13: People prefer to spend time with people that meet them in their weakness versus someone who will speak to their strength

14: Every atheist wonders what if GOD is real

15: Every believer wonders why a non believer seems to be mad at them

16: People take “come as you are” real serious when it comes to going to church but will get fresh to death to go out and have a good time

17: The phrase “GOD knows my heart” is code for “don’t try to coerce me to go to church 

18: The phrase, “the church is full of hypocrites” is code for, “I don’t want to go to church because imperfect people like me are there. And reality is I just don’t want to go. Point blank period”.

19: The women who have settled for less than what they need and want in a mate still may not be proposed to by the man, so in essence,  they have settled for less than less, which is nothing

20: Many times people don’t reach for the stars because they don’t have a champion around to spur them on 

21: Some people can’t be a champion for others because they don’t believe in themselves 

22: People believe that having wealth trumps having character. Until the lack of character impacts them or their wealth 

23: People that have good character are those who turned over a new leaf after having poor character didn’t work out so well for them

24: Perfection, is manufactured by Lancôme, a great hairstylist and whichever designer fits you best. (women will get this). Otherwise there is no such thing

25: Women you’re worth the wait. 

26: I’m convinced running late is a condition. Big Pharma do you have medicine for that? Now wait, in the fine print make sure it doesn’t cause suicidal thoughts, diarrhea, kidney failure, internal bleeding or something that will cause someone not to show up at all 

27: People need to stick together, because we’re starting to fall apart.

28: Don’t hate because someone buys organic, they don’t hate because someone likes GMO’s, pesticides, hormones, high fructose corn syrup or sweeteners that cause slow brain leaks

29: How long will it take people who are all shapes, sizes and colors, to recognize that people come in all shapes, sizes and colors? How long will it take those same people to recognize that none of us were made to be the same but should be loved just the same. 

30: If you hate others at least try not to impart it on your children. The world is diverse and they will need to know how to maneuver in it when you’re in your grave

GOD is Good all the time and all the time HE’S good, but I’m sure HE’S about sick of our foolishness. 

~Mediocre People Meant for Excellence 

Copyright © 2017 by Bridgette Hicks 

Study the Spirit

Christianity needs on overall overhaul because I’m telling you this one thing and of this I am sure: Over half of those who claim to be repping JESUS man….smiles hiding fangs. I have never seen so much hate of late by pages with many followers, the representation hiding their faces, selling JESUS merchandise while posting hate filled rhetoric. Shame shame shame. And please don’t think that there is a need for you to please me. I am not the judge. But this is a word to those who follow. Watch who you’re following. False doctrine getting down in your veins. No wonder you’re walking around thinking you’re saying and doing the right things. Study to show thy own self approved, otherwise when your number is called you will be left holding the bag of tricks the magician you paid to see convinced you was a bag of GODLY seed. But the truth of the matter is deep in your heart you know it was wrong. You’ve just become used to hearing others sing the same old songs. My spirit weeps for you.


©2016 Bridgette Hicks 

I Ask For Love

LORD, Create in me a clean heart, Oh GOD; and renew a Right Spirit in me. Psalms 51:10

I’ve been reading about/watching a lot of hate in the media, movies, etc…but in my real life I see a lot of Love. I desire to focus on the Love…on the YOU and let you deal with the rest. I know you don’t play and you are a Protector, Provider, Peace Giver, and Love Instiller. 

GOD, Your Love captures people, places and hearts that one would never imagine could be touched. That’s why I count on you so much. 

Again I ask, with a humbled heart, “Create in me a Clean Heart, Oh GOD, and Renew a Right Spirit in me. 

Choose this day whom you will serve…..

~Bridgette Hicks

©2016 Bridgette Hicks

YOU Matter

I’m here to tell some woman that believes she has to give her body away to receive love…You Matter. I’m here to tell the woman who doesn’t love herself enough to decipher when a man really loves you….You Matter. I’m here to tell the woman that was once abused so she feels that abusive relationships are the standard…You Matter. I’m here to tell the young girl being bullied and picked on…You Matter. I’m here to tell the wife whose husband cheats or beats on her…You Matter. I’m here to tell the little girl who is being molested and lives with the secret shame….You Matter. I want to tell you that you are beautiful, smart, ambitious, loving, wise and worthy. Find your worth in these words from GODS mouth, to my heart and to this post. You will, you shall, you must…WALK WORTHY!!! In JESUS NAME, AMEN! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾