Not For Every One, Just The One

I saw this photo from Shawn McKenzie and loved it. I wrote some encouraging words below it for women like this. I  pray it blesses you. The revelation blessed me.

If you are this, understand that every man is not looking for this. Make sure you’re ok with that fact and remember to not take a step back waiting for someone who doesn’t understand the value of this, to catch up. They just may not be in to you, or ready for you, or just not checking for you. That’s ok. If there is only one for you that means don’t gaze into the eyes of every man in the multitude wondering if he is the one. It may sound cliche but fix your eyes on GOD. If you deal in Faith you know HE will not make you ashamed, HE knows what you need, want and how to give it to you. HE is your Father. Your greatest champion who knows and calls you by name. Speak your name and who you are and what GOD has Himself said about you. It will help you to remember you’re worthy. As for me, my name is Bridgette. Though I had strayed I am called and chosen. I am waiting, I am patient, I am grateful and I Am LOVE. 

Ich Liebe Dich Alle ❤️

~Bridgette Hicks 2017


Future Husband Choose “Right”

Future Husband,
I may not be perfect or the best to some. But I’m perfect and the best for you. I’m perfect and best in ways only your spirit can discern…therefore, the more of GOD you receive….the more you recognize me. The further your distance from GOD, ensures to distance your mind from me. Righteousness allows you to choose right. It’s always a choice….a righteous choice. Choose well. I’m waiting on you but in the meantime I’m praying for you. 


Your Future Wife 

~ Bridgette Hicks

©2015 Bridgette Hicks

Single For Purpose

    Most GODLY, Good, Whole women are not single for an extended amount of time because something is wrong with them. Most GODLY, Good, Whole women are single because they have learned. They have learned that the way they did things when they were not in relationship with GOD or not yet whole no longer satisfied them. They learned that time without a significant other or husband is GODS development time. Time for GOD to develop their gifts, give them confidence, birth their purpose, help them pursue their dreams, give them power to intercede, give them resources to help others, give the desire for them to live their best life and take them through the fire so that they may come out as pure gold.     

In living ones best life you become whole. Whole is lacking or needing nothing. In your wholeness is where you attract what’s GODS best for you and are able to share GODS best you with others. In your wholeness is where everyone that sits at your table is fed the good of GODS Land. At your table they will find JOY, PEACE, LOVE, LAUGHTER, WISDOM, HOPE, GOOD HEALTH, POWER, PURPOSE, COMPASSION, REVELATION, TRUTH and GOD. 

    Never believe that relationship status means one is whole. Broken pieces seek out other broken pieces believing they can crazy glue the pieces of themselves to another to make a whole structure. It’s a hard situation because both are still broken in their own right and need to find and repair the missing pieces of their own life before they can truly become one with another. But GOD. 

    Take time off….time off from mingling broken spirits because spirits do transfer. Take time off to rid yourself of old spirits…because they do stay with you. Take time off so that when GOD sends someone you’ve rid your mind of comparisons, which can steal the moment of knowing. learning and growing into something new. Take time off so you can be whole…lacking nothing. 

    Now back to that single lady. Always know that she is GODLY, Good, Whole, Wise and Confidently waiting on GOD to send her the PROMISE. Just like the servant in Matthew 25:23 GOD is going to say to her “well done”. Take some time alone and watch HIM do the same for you.

~Signed a Proverbs 31 ~a future wife of Noble Character 

Ich Liebe Dich Alle❤️

©2015 Bridgette Hicks

“But let endurance and steadfastness and patience have full play and do a thorough work, so that you may be [people] perfectly and fully developed [with no defects], lacking in nothing.”  ‭‭James‬ ‭1:4‬ ‭AMP‬‬.

Girlfriends please know this one thing

The one for you loves you exactly the way you are. They wouldn’t change one thing about you, except the most important thing…your last name. Please understand, you are one mans’ wife, not many men’s girlfriend. You dont have to give away everything to get something. You don’t have to prove you’re everything to someone who wants to be nothing to you. There is someone who wants to give you everything. Dont try and verify for someone that you are the one. The right man is prepared to go out of his way proving he’s the right one for you. You are a prize. Please recognize. Let patience have its perfect work. Be anxious over nothing your request has been made known.
In the meantime GOD continues to prepare you. not just for the one, but to be a better you. Let HIM make it do what it do. Nobody can do it better. HE knows the plans he has…for you.
©2013 Bridgette Hicks