Not For Every One, Just The One

I saw this photo from Shawn McKenzie and loved it. I wrote some encouraging words below it for women like this. I  pray it blesses you. The revelation blessed me.

If you are this, understand that every man is not looking for this. Make sure you’re ok with that fact and remember to not take a step back waiting for someone who doesn’t understand the value of this, to catch up. They just may not be in to you, or ready for you, or just not checking for you. That’s ok. If there is only one for you that means don’t gaze into the eyes of every man in the multitude wondering if he is the one. It may sound cliche but fix your eyes on GOD. If you deal in Faith you know HE will not make you ashamed, HE knows what you need, want and how to give it to you. HE is your Father. Your greatest champion who knows and calls you by name. Speak your name and who you are and what GOD has Himself said about you. It will help you to remember you’re worthy. As for me, my name is Bridgette. Though I had strayed I am called and chosen. I am waiting, I am patient, I am grateful and I Am LOVE. 

Ich Liebe Dich Alle ❤️

~Bridgette Hicks 2017

Let GOD Do It

Single Woman,
As a woman we have certain intrinsic qualities. One of those qualities is that of a nurturer. That quality is used to love, care for, protect and mold those we love. The molding characteristic in my opinion is specifically for the upbringing of our young. Many of us however use this molding to attempt to shape grown men we’re in relationship with. Please understand that you can’t change a man. No matter how beautiful, kind and nurturing you are, that molding will never work. Save the shaping of minds for the young and let GOD shape the man. That’s the only way he will be the man you want him to be….Your Man, Your Husband. That’s the only way he can be what you need him to be…A MAN of GOD. Be equally yoked, but let GOD do the yoking.
© 2014 Bridgette Hicks

Winners Play to Win

Single Woman,
Are you a winner? Do you play to win? Well, why play a game you know you may lose? If a man has multiple women…you lose, if a man is married…you lose, if a man only wants to have sex with you…you lose, if a man doesn’t have or isn’t seeking a relationship with GOD…you’ve LOST.
Being a winner means using wisdom. Never enter a fight that wisdom tells you beforehand you can’t win.
Wisdom is a trademark of a Winner.
©2014 Bridgette Hicks